Sexolutions!

10 tips to make your erotic life more exciting

By Lola LeBlanc

We're half way through 2010, and most of our resolutions have fallen by the wayside. But if you still want to make changes and improvements, and try new things, now is as good a time as any to do it! I’m not talking about joining a gym or giving up smoking, here; I mean changes in the bedroom (or on the patio if you dare!). There is always something new to try, and some times just a simple change can really perk up your love life! So I have a list of ten exciting suggestions for you to try. This time I'm talking about ways to jump start your passion!

1. Have more sex! I know this may be easier said than done, but try it. Did you know that if you have sex 12 times a month it is equal to about 7 miles of running. More sex means a healthier happier you!

2. Take a trip! Sex in another location or hotel can be exciting, and a new environment provides a fun spark with a spouse or lover. The change of venue provides for excitement and exploration, so be creative and do the things you would never do at home. And remember that even making love in a different room in the house can spark that exciting feeling of naughtiness!

3. Give back! Give some head, get some head. Give a kiss here and get a lick there. Reciprocation is important in the bedroom, but sometimes it can get a little boring, so try to surprise your partner with something new! Put a little Sugar Lips on your nipples and as you come home from your date he’ll be surprised with the flavor of your sweetly stimulated breasts. Or gamble a little in the bedroom with Glow in the Dark Dice. One die shows an action, and the other the body part, so you can have another way to explore one another. Whether it's something you never thought to try, or an experience you always secretly wanted, but didn't know how to express, sometimes following the rules of a sexy little game will release your inhibitions in ways you never expected.

4. Recycle more! With everything we do we want to find a way to protect Mother Earth. You might be wondering what this has to do with a better sex life, but recycling your dildos is good for you and the environment. You can send your old vibrator (or the one that lost its buzz) to Scarlet Girl for an incentive toward a new toy! Scarlet Girl will give you a $10 dollar credit toward your next online purchase. so check it out!

5. Reduce your stress! Start the year right by preventing or minimizing your stress. Massage is a great way to melt away the stress, but with the tough economy this luxury can be out of our budgets. But have no fear, there is a more cost effective way to get a massage, and a guaranteed happy ending! Try the Sensual Massage Package to add texture sexy sensations to your personal massage with the massage glove and lotion, and Erotic Massage book. Or have your partner stimulate your tired muscles with Hot & Heavenly Flavored Warming Massage Oils, which warm with each rub to relax your entire body. To ensure a happy ending the oil is edible, inviting your personal masseuse to take a passionate bite!

6. Out with the old and in with the new! Ladies, the nights of sticky whipped cream messes are gone. For those nights when you want to bring something tasty into the bedroom try Click here for more information on how you can benefit from being a Scarlet Girl!

9. Go back to school! Try to learn more about your body and sex in general. Doing this can improve your sex life and increase your moments of ecstasy. Take a class with a friend, or your partner, on sexual health or oral sex. Scarlet girl will be providing workshops on how to improve your sex life, so check the site regularly or sign up for our newsletter for info on upcoming workshops!

10. Use coupons! Yes discounts are a great way to save money and try new things. If you are interested in purchasing anything mentioned in this article enter the code NEWYR with your online purchase to receive free Priority shipping, and a free 1 oz. lubricant with your order.

Take advantage of the excitement a new start has to offer you, and do all the things you have always wanted to do, inside and outside of the bedroom!

Lola LeBlanc loves to share! She believes that every woman should have a sex life full of love, passion, and satisfaction. She believes in the three E’s; ecstasy, excitement, and exploration with every sexual experience.

Lola’s knowledge and tips come from her health background and her own personal experiences. She loves to explore the world of sexuality to bring you the best tips and tricks to enhance your sex life!
Remember whatever Lola wants…well you know the rest!