You Want Me to Put My Mouth on What?
By Lola LeBlanc
Maybe you've thought about it. Maybe you've tried it. Maybe you loved it and
maybe you hated it.
You can call it head, fellatio, oral, going down, or (a 90’s classic) a
Anyway you say it; you are putting your mouth on a man’s penis.
And I love it! Yeah I said it! It is enjoyable to me. It excites me to be in
control of so much pleasure for a man. I know you may be thinking I’m crazy. Or
possibly you're cheering me on. But, I have a secret…I swore I was never going
to do that! So, how did that change, you might ask? Well a man asked me to put
my mouth on it. The request was paired with puppy eyes, and I loved him, so I
went for it.
I don’t know if it was the fact that he kept talking about it, or that I was
finally intrigued enough by the action, but I did it. And I had no idea what I
was doing! All he wanted me to do was put my mouth on it, so that is exactly
what I did. I moved my mouth from the head of the penis to the shaft and back.
The first time from top to bottom, I almost freaked out. The second trip, I
noticed that I made him feel a type of pleasure he longed for. And finally the
last time, I realized that I liked it, and I liked how I felt, too. He had a
smile from ear to ear, and so did I.
For some reason, I viewed fellatio as something that only made men feel good.
I thought it was something a bit dirty and, well, humiliating for a woman to do.
But when I realized that I could provide another form of ecstasy for him, and
even experience pleasure myself, I was hooked!
I have a health background, so I started by learning as much as I could about
the penis. How it worked, what parts are sensitive, how much pressure to apply,
what to do with my mouth to make it enjoyable for the both of us. So, here are
some of the tips I picked up. Whether this info encourages you to try it out for
the first time, or just to adds more fun to the experience for you both, there
are a couple of key points to keep in mind for good oral sex.
· Lubrication is key!
Whether it is your own saliva or a
water based lubricant, wetter sex is better sex, and a good lubricant it is
what you need to keep things moving (mouth and/or hands). Depending on the guy,
the more lubrication, the better the sensation. The lubrication also helps your
lips glide over the penis, which actually reduces jaw fatigue for you, and adds
a little protection from your teeth for him.
· Use your hands!
Use your hands on the penis too,
especially the shaft and head. Tickle and massage his testicles, stroke his
perineum, run your hands down his thighs or up his belly and chest. Don’t be
afraid to move your hands all around his hot spots and be creative! Remember to
use ample lubrication, too. No one likes the feeling of a fingernail dragging
across sensitive skin!
Ask your partner what he likes and
dislikes. Maybe he likes more of your hands than your mouth? Or maybe he wants
both? Ask if the pressure and lubrication is enjoyable for him. But more
importantly, ask for him to give you suggestions. And remember, a moan can speak
You don’t have to be on your knees to give
oral sex. Be in a position that is comfortable for you. The more comfortable you
are, the better the experience is for both of you. Just like there are countless
positions for intercourse, you could spend a long time trying to count up the
number of positions for oral sex, too.
These suggestions are just the tip of the iceberg; there is always so much
more to learn. You may decide you like watching the porn of your choice for
inspiration, but the best way to improve your skills is to practice. So the next
time you’re giving him a little Lewinsky, try adding some new hand action, or
simply and directly ask him what he wants. Showing him that you care about his
pleasure will definitely benefit you when your turn comes. Remember that you
have the on/off switch to his pleasure button in your hands (or mouth), so
embrace it! Think about the passionate sex that is soon to come, your turn as
recipient, or the fact that you simply turn him on. You are in control!
Lola LeBlanc loves
to share! She believes that every woman should have a sex life full of love,
passion, and satisfaction. She believes in the three E’s; ecstasy, excitement,
and exploration with every sexual experience.
Lola’s knowledge and tips come from her health background and her own
personal experiences. She loves to explore the world of sexuality to bring you
the best tips and tricks to enhance your sex life!
Remember whatever Lola
wants…well you know the rest!