You Want Me to Put My Mouth on What?

By Lola LeBlanc

Maybe you've thought about it. Maybe you've tried it. Maybe you loved it and maybe you hated it.

You can call it head, fellatio, oral, going down, or (a 90’s classic) a little Lewinsky.

Anyway you say it; you are putting your mouth on a man’s penis.

And I love it! Yeah I said it! It is enjoyable to me. It excites me to be in control of so much pleasure for a man. I know you may be thinking I’m crazy. Or possibly you're cheering me on. But, I have a secret…I swore I was never going to do that! So, how did that change, you might ask? Well a man asked me to put my mouth on it. The request was paired with puppy eyes, and I loved him, so I went for it.

I don’t know if it was the fact that he kept talking about it, or that I was finally intrigued enough by the action, but I did it. And I had no idea what I was doing! All he wanted me to do was put my mouth on it, so that is exactly what I did. I moved my mouth from the head of the penis to the shaft and back. The first time from top to bottom, I almost freaked out. The second trip, I noticed that I made him feel a type of pleasure he longed for. And finally the last time, I realized that I liked it, and I liked how I felt, too. He had a smile from ear to ear, and so did I.

For some reason, I viewed fellatio as something that only made men feel good. I thought it was something a bit dirty and, well, humiliating for a woman to do. But when I realized that I could provide another form of ecstasy for him, and even experience pleasure myself, I was hooked!

I have a health background, so I started by learning as much as I could about the penis. How it worked, what parts are sensitive, how much pressure to apply, what to do with my mouth to make it enjoyable for the both of us. So, here are some of the tips I picked up. Whether this info encourages you to try it out for the first time, or just to adds more fun to the experience for you both, there are a couple of key points to keep in mind for good oral sex.

· Lubrication is key!
Whether it is your own saliva or a water based lubricant, wetter sex is better sex, and a good lubricant it is what you need to keep things moving (mouth and/or hands). Depending on the guy, the more lubrication, the better the sensation. The lubrication also helps your lips glide over the penis, which actually reduces jaw fatigue for you, and adds a little protection from your teeth for him.

· Use your hands!
Use your hands on the penis too, especially the shaft and head. Tickle and massage his testicles, stroke his perineum, run your hands down his thighs or up his belly and chest. Don’t be afraid to move your hands all around his hot spots and be creative! Remember to use ample lubrication, too. No one likes the feeling of a fingernail dragging across sensitive skin!

· Communication!
Ask your partner what he likes and dislikes. Maybe he likes more of your hands than your mouth? Or maybe he wants both? Ask if the pressure and lubrication is enjoyable for him. But more importantly, ask for him to give you suggestions. And remember, a moan can speak volumes.

· Comfort!
You don’t have to be on your knees to give oral sex. Be in a position that is comfortable for you. The more comfortable you are, the better the experience is for both of you. Just like there are countless positions for intercourse, you could spend a long time trying to count up the number of positions for oral sex, too.

These suggestions are just the tip of the iceberg; there is always so much more to learn. You may decide you like watching the porn of your choice for inspiration, but the best way to improve your skills is to practice. So the next time you’re giving him a little Lewinsky, try adding some new hand action, or simply and directly ask him what he wants. Showing him that you care about his pleasure will definitely benefit you when your turn comes. Remember that you have the on/off switch to his pleasure button in your hands (or mouth), so embrace it! Think about the passionate sex that is soon to come, your turn as recipient, or the fact that you simply turn him on. You are in control!

Bon Appétit!

Lola LeBlanc loves to share! She believes that every woman should have a sex life full of love, passion, and satisfaction. She believes in the three E’s; ecstasy, excitement, and exploration with every sexual experience.

Lola’s knowledge and tips come from her health background and her own personal experiences. She loves to explore the world of sexuality to bring you the best tips and tricks to enhance your sex life!
Remember whatever Lola wants…well you know the rest!